Dating an older married woman with kids
He’s busy studying for a major exam that will allow him to work for whomever he wants and to make the kind of moves and money I probably won’t ever see (hey, columnists weren’t meant to be millionaires).With all that drive comes a lot of time we don’t get to share together.Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.This is not a video game that you can turn off when you decide you do not like how the game is playing out.Contrary to popular belief — and Lifetime movies — not every woman with a child is looking for a second parent if the biological parent is actively involved in the child’s life and doing a good, low-drama job of co-parenting.An honest conversation about this should minimize the chances of you making a surprise cameo on a VH1 reality show. Should a man without kids hesitate to date a woman with kids?
I have friends who have gotten upset because a woman they are dating has to drop everything for their child. A woman should not be placed in a position to choose between the child she loves and the man she likes.WIM is not a model, a model citizen, or a role model.See more of WIM on his weekly write-ups for SBM, on Twitter @Wisdom Is Misery, and Instagram: Wisdom Is Misery.” First, whether a man has children of his own or not, there is nothing wrong with preferring to date women without children.We are all free to make up whatever dating preferences we want.