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From the beginning he saw me as a damaged waif in need of protection, and I let him. I am much better at picking friends than romantic partners, and nothing has ever gone terribly wrong with this approach.

But somehow it doesn’t seem quite enough when you’re taking the first steps toward asking someone to love you for better or for worse.

“It’s hard enough to find someone with similar interests,” she said. Other sites include No Longer Lonely, for adults with mental illness, and POZ Personals, for people who are H. They are usually free, although some have a few ads to cover costs. Maurer, 57, a professor of applied psychology at New York University, came upon POZ Personals while doing research for his work and found it to be a welcoming community where it was easier to get to know someone. “Like anyone else, people with disabilities have different preferences,” Ms. “Someone with good mobility may prefer someone also mobile; others don’t limit at all.” As for Ms.

“As a gay man from Bucks County, Pa., I thought dating would be easy in New York, but it didn’t prove to be so,” Dr. He said the worst part of dating was the anxiety over disclosing his H. Nevius, the man of her dreams may be paralyzed or blind, but there is one potential deal breaker: He must be an animal lover.

And as I know from dating a fellow depressive, I ironically have little patience for it. I feel time running out for a family, adding a charming dimension of desperation.

She lives in Normal, Ill., a town with few single men around her age, let alone familiar and comfortable with disability. with your disability just makes it harder.” So this fall Ms. Several dating Web sites for singles with health problems have started up in the last few years. Nevius joined Dating 4 Disabled, a site for people with an array of disabilities, including paralysis and multiple sclerosis. These sites are generally small and run by one person or a small group. Getting to know someone in an online community of people with H. Among the almost 12,000 members of Dating 4 Disabled, for example, many specify the types of disabilities they would be open to dealing with in a long-term relationship.

I have seen dating websites for the mentally ill, and although I'm sure there is blessed relief in a partner who knows what you're going through from the get-go, I don’t think matching us up is a good idea.

One of you needs to be able to get out of bed every morning and persuade the other to do the same.

A good eight years were wasted on someone I dated briefly and became obsessed with once he ended it. I think there is still a lot more stigma than we admit, and every joke someone cracks about being “so OCD” makes it harder to explain that while you all think you’re totally cool with me being obsessive-compulsive, it’s a lot more than lining up pencils and touching the light switch.

It was the most tangible manifestation of my illness I’ve experienced, and it makes me sick to think about. Men have broken up with me after getting only a glimpse of my worst looming on the horizon, and others have stayed with me through abhorrent behavior because they were afraid of what I might do if they left.

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